How to Express Your Feelings In Romantic Relationships

How to Express Your Feelings In Romantic Relationships In this article I will describe how to talk about feelings with your romantic partner. How to express yourself in relationships and become emotionally available if you are not naturally open with your feelings. Many men hire me after their wife has ...
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What not to do if you suspect your husband or wife is having an affair

What not to do if you suspect your husband or wife is having an affair It is not an easy thing to face thinking that your partner could be cheating on you. It can bring with it a host of emotions like jealousy, anger and sadness. It may be causing ...
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What To Do If Your Husband or Wife Has Been Cheating

What To Do If Your Husband or Wife Has Had An Affair You had your suspicions, picked up on the subtle signs, you’ve been observing their behavior and it’s become clear to you one way or the other that your husband or wife has been cheating on you. Perhaps they ...
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How to Protect Yourself From Dealing With An Alcoholic Parent, Husband or Wife

10 Ways To Protect Yourself if Your Parent, Husband or Wife Is An Alcoholic Make sure there are boundaries: Maybe you still want your parent to be involved in your life and the lives of your children but you are not comfortable with putting you and your children in potentially ...
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Dealing with an alcoholic parent as an adult

Dealing with an alcoholic parent as an adultAlcohol can and does have devastating effects on people. And it has even more devastating effects on relationships. When the person who has a problem with alcohol happens to be a parent, this can cause irreversible damage to people. What could have started ...
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My husband hit me for the first time what shall I do?

Are you thinking... My husband hit me for the first time and I don't know what to do? My wife is violent and I don't know whether to stay or leave? I have hit my wife and want to save my marriage I have hit my husband and he has ...
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Is Depression Killing Your Relationship Or Have They Lost Interest? (Part 2)

THE WARNING SIGNS THAT DEPRESSION IS AFFECTING YOUR RELATIONSHIP When a spouse acts withdrawn and unaffectionate, a couple's sex life and level of intimacy will suffer. There is also a sense of shame attached to having a mental health disorder, which can prevent a depressed spouse from seeking help for ...
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Is Depression Killing Your Relationship Or Have They Lost Interest? (Part 1)

Depression can have a devastating effect on close relationships. Sometimes depressed people blame themselves for their pain; sometimes they blame their partners. It’s baffling and painful to see them turn into closed, cold or accusing partners. They may be so different at times that you question do you even know ...
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Confronting and managing control issues in a relationship

It doesn’t feel good to feel controlled in a relationship. It also on a soul level doesn’t feel good to be controlling someone else. Yet unfortunately, it happens all the time and often continues that way until someone has had enough and wants out of the relationship. Over time people ...
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Stop Getting Hurt & Setting Healthy Boundaries

Boundaries are one of the most critical factors in healthy, happy and harmonious relationships. A boundary is a self-honouring agreement inside yourself or with another person that supports your well-being and comes from love. They’re built out of a mix of beliefs, opinions, attitudes, past experiences and social learning. When ...
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Money, Conflict and Control of Finances

When you are married you are tied financially to each other, every decision and transaction affects the other whether you like it or not. That is why finances and control of them is a big area of conflict in family relationships and marriage. You will never agree on everything when ...
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How To Become Closer Through Infertility & Fertility Treatment

Struggling to get pregnant can be a serious blow to the self-esteem of both women and men. Many people have reported feeling flawed, inadequate or guilty. These emotions can bring strain to the individual and couple. Couples undergoing fertility treatment clearly experience a roller-coaster of emotions, the high hopes and ...
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Breaking the Cycle of Isolating and Loneliness

There is a HUGE difference between taking personal processing timeout when you need to think, assess or relax and isolating. Isolating is where you don’t communicate and connect with others for a long period of time. For example; a person may focus on work and then after work instead of ...
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Blowing Hot and Cold In Marriage

Most of the men and women I work with to single-handedly save their marriage from divorce or those who email me asking to know when a marriage is over or what to do when the feelings in a marriage are gone; report to me that their husband or wife is blowing ...
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Is Sexting and Virtual Affairs a Real Threat To Marriage?

When Dawn caught her husband Mark sexting an ex-colleague on WhatsApp, her whole world came crashing down, so we began marriage counselling in Abu Dhabi to discuss this issue. Mark argued that it was an innocent pastime, a bit of fun and that the girl lived in another city (Dubai) ...
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Eating Disorder Signs and Types – Do You Have An Eating Disorder?

Did you know that in the US alone, an estimated 20 million women and 10 million men have or have had an eating disorder at some point in their lives? A lot of people right. You may be wondering what are the eating disorder signs? Whilst I dislike the word ...
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What NOT to do when your husband or wife threatens divorce

What NOT to do when your husband or wife threatens divorce – how to save your marriage and stop divorce today!  General relationship advice does not work when it comes to saving a marriage in crisis.  A couple wanting to increase their intimacy or overcome an area of tension is ...
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Dealing With Alcohol or Drug Problems / Addictions in Relationships – Marriage Counselling Advice

Watching someone, you love harm themselves with alcohol or drugs can be very painful. I am passionate about this topic because I use to suffer from a secret crushing daily drinking habit years ago, where despite wanting to stop, I found I could not. Thankfully I sort help and recovered ...
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5 Narcissistic Traits & How To Deal with Them

I had a lady email me last month saying that a psychologist told her that her husband was a narcissist and she didn’t really know what that meant and she tried to share it with him and he went mad.  I have helped many women and men deal with a ...
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What To Know When You Get Out Of An Abusive Relationship

Until I worked in the field of helping men and women heal their childhood wounds or from abusive relationships I didn’t comprehend the scale of emotional abuse taking place today. Emotional abuse happens across all cultures regardless of religious, economic and social background and it is a growing trend. We ...
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How Compulsive Lying Can Affect Relationships

Having a compulsive liar in your family or being married to one can be exhausting.  In this article I will share with you how to deal with a compulsive liar, how to address a compulsive liar and how to look after yourself when dealing with a compulsive liar. I’ve also ...
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Money Mindsets and Marriage

Resolve your financial disputes and conflicts by understanding what money really means to you and your partner There’s no disputing the fact that money, or in most cases the lack of it, is now the leading cause of stress in a relationship. Often leading to unnecessary arguments and break-ups it’s ...
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Nicola Beer is an Eating, Family and Relationship Specialist. Services include marriage coaching an alternative to marriage counselling, divorce coaching, grief counselling, anger management, healing from abuse and self-esteem boosting. Eating support includes freedom from bulimia, anorexia, compulsive, comfort, binge and emotional eating. She also runs a relationship coaching certification training and business mentorship program for those that want to start or grow a healing or life coaching business. She is a US certified grief recovery specialist, counselor, life coach and hypnotherapist online or UAE & Saudi Arabia (Dubai, Abu Dhabi, Riyadh, Jeddah Khobar, Damman)

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