Therapy for Cheaters – Saving A Marriage After The Affair

How To Handle Infidelity in Marriage & Getting Past The Affair By Nicola Beer In this I want to cover how to deal with infidelity in your marriage if you have cheated. As one of my most popular programs is therapy for cheaters who have cheated on their husband or ...
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How to Solve a Sexless Marriage Instead of Calling a Relationship Advice Hotline

If you are feeling frustrated and down about your sex life right now you are not alone. That’s why online relationship counseling and relationship advice hotline does exist. Literally, nearly every couple I speak to wants something to change or improve when it comes to sex. “how can I save ...
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Top 12 Reasons Why A Sexless Marriage Happens Or a Fear of Sex Develops

There are many reasons why a marriage can become sexless. Some of the main reasons include 1 Lack of emotional intimacy and connection Where a couple only talks about finances, what food to eat or theirs or the children’s schedule for the week. Where the intimate emotional sharing about thoughts, ...
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Why do we find ourselves craving sugar so badly?

Scientists have found sugar is more addictive than cocaine and as bread turns to sugar in our system bread, cake and pasta addiction is also a real problem for many, addiction to white flour. Other psychologists and emotional eating books see stopping emotional eating as the solution. One reason that ...
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Is sugar addiction and bread addiction real or is it an emotional eating disorder?

You’ve heard of people being alcohol addicts, drug addicts and even gambling addicts but have you heard of anyone being a sugar addict? It’s a term these days that tends to hold a bit of a controversial standpoint because on the one side there are people who have suffered from ...
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How to fix a relationship with empty nest marriage syndrome

Nothing prepares parents for the transition to an empty nest and it can cause damage to a marriage. In this article I highlight how to fix a relationship and get along with your spouse as empty nesters. As empty nest marriage symptoms are just as profound as empty nest syndrome ...
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How Empty Nest Syndrome Affects A Marriage

Sadly, empty nest syndrome symptoms affect not only individuals but marriages too. In this blog, I will address what is the effect of empty nest syndrome in marriage and how to become closer. It’s a serious issue as research has linked empty nest syndrome and affairs. Don’t presume your husband ...
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How to overcome emotional eating, understanding emotional hungers

Are you stuck wondering how to overcome emotional eating for good and stick to your healthy eating plans? If yes, this article is for you. I will share the top 5 hungers that come up and also talk about overcoming emotional eating more generally. If you haven’t already do check ...
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How to stop comfort eating & identifying the different sensory hungers

When we think of hunger, we always tend to think that it is about nourishing our bodies so that they may continue to flourish. But we don’t realise it is about much more than just satisfying an instinctual urge within us. Once we become aware of this we can know ...
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Pre Marriage Counseling – Free Relationship Advice (part 2)

Thanks for being here, it’s so important to make sure your marriage gets off to a good at start. Be sure to read part 1 if you missed it… 5 Managing your financials How to manage finances in a marriage is a really important topic to discuss before getting married ...
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Pre Marriage Counseling – Free Relationship Advice

When it comes to marital counselling, people generally don’t give it a second thought ahead of their wedding. The idea is that why would they need this therapy before they even get married? “Isn’t that something that people who’ve been married a while do so they don’t end up divorced?” ...
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Gaming Addiction Help – Article – Dealing With Video Game Addiction In Marriage

Gaming Addiction Help Article –  Handling Gaming Addiction in Marriage UK, UAE and US  Addiction in any form tends to be something that really affects relationships not to mention can cause them to break down completely. But what is gaming addiction and why is it something that does damage to ...
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Getting Past Anger & Getting Over An Affair – Online Marriage Counseling

Getting Past Anger After An Affair / Getting Past The Affair - Online Marriage Counseling The most common questions I get in my online marriage counseling is “how do I get past the affair?” “is getting past the affair possible?” “how can you get past an emotional affair?” When I ...
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How to Talk to A Stubborn Egoistical Husband / Wife

How to Talk To A Stubborn, Egotistical Husband / Wife - By Nicola Beer When you are in a relationship, arguing with your partner can exhaust you and leave you feeling frustrated all the time. If you are prepared to get into an argument with your partner to confront them ...
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How To Deal With a Stubborn Husband / Wife That Has To Be Right

I often get asked how to deal with a Husband or Wife who is a narcissist or how to deal with a Husband or Wife who is stubborn and has to be right. Read on if this applies to you. There are many things which can become an irritation in ...
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Are you too busy to make your marriage work?

Are you too busy to make your marriage work? Are you too busy being busy? Has even your social calendar turned into one big to do list and get through each weekend? Is there limited time to think let alone get intimate with your partner? The real question is Are ...
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How to deal with depression and stress without over eating or starving yourself

More than we realize, stress and symptoms of depression can have an impact on our dietary lifestyle, weight or the way we choose to see food. Learning how to understand where your stress comes from and how to cope with it can be a big step in the right direction ...
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Reasons Why Men and Women Cheat and Have Emotional and Physical Affairs

Often men and women approach me for couple counselling Dubai and online to find out why a husband or wife has cheated on them. I also get hired by husbands and wives who have cheated on their spouse looking for answers for their own behavior because they don’t understand it ...
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Part 2 Reasons Why A Husband / Wife have Emotional or Physical Affair’s – Private Marriage Help

Hi and thank you for taking this time to learn more about the reason why men and women cheat, are caught in sexting and social media flirting as well as having full blown affairs. I mentioned my discoveries during depression treatment Dubai services I offer, that there are reasons such ...
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How to have a great love filled holiday

During the Individual and Couples Counselling Dubai, Abu Dhabi & Online I run Holiday Stress and arguments is a common reason people feel frustrated or fed up. Typically there is a magical build up for the weeks leading up to Christmas, perhaps even months with children. Where the parties and ...
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The Causes of Eating Disorders and Food Addiction

The Causes of Eating Disorders and Food Addiction When I set out to become free on my journey from the different eating disorders I had experienced, I wanted to know what were the main causes of eating disorders. As I hoped that by researching the causes I could find the ...
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How to Stop Being Codependent in Relationships / Codependency In Marriage

How to Stop Being Codependent in Relationships Changing “whatever you want” to whatever I want” Overcoming codependency is simple in theory yet in practice stopping being codependent can be difficult, that is why codependency counseling is becoming more and more popular not just in the UAE and middle east but ...
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Symptoms and Signs of Codependency in Marriage and Relationships

Symptoms and Signs of Codependency in Marriage and Relationships Many relationships start with romance, cozy week-ends in bed and that feeling that you just can’t imagine your life without each other. It is often an equal balanced relationship of give and take for most couples. However, as the days roll ...
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Symptoms and Signs Body Dysmorphic Disorder BDD and Dysmorphia Treatment

Signs and Symptoms of Body Dysmorphia BDD How can you tell the difference between someone who doesn’t like something about their body and someone suffering with BDD? It is a good question as most of us probably have a few things we would love to change about our appearance. The ...
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What is Body Dysmorphic Disorder BDD and Body Dysmorphia Treatment

What is Body Dysmorphic Disorder BDD and Body Dysmorphia Treatment Most of us have something that we wish were different about our bodies. For example: a crooked nose, small eyes, lips that are too thin or thick, stomach rolls, thighs, legs or arms that are either too small or big ...
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How to Express Your Feelings In Romantic Relationships

How to Express Your Feelings In Romantic Relationships In this article I will describe how to talk about feelings with your romantic partner. How to express yourself in relationships and become emotionally available if you are not naturally open with your feelings. Many men hire me after their wife has ...
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What not to do if you suspect your husband or wife is having an affair

What not to do if you suspect your husband or wife is having an affair It is not an easy thing to face thinking that your partner could be cheating on you. It can bring with it a host of emotions like jealousy, anger and sadness. It may be causing ...
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What To Do If Your Husband or Wife Has Been Cheating

What To Do If Your Husband or Wife Has Had An Affair You had your suspicions, picked up on the subtle signs, you’ve been observing their behavior and it’s become clear to you one way or the other that your husband or wife has been cheating on you. Perhaps they ...
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How to Protect Yourself From Dealing With An Alcoholic Parent, Husband or Wife

10 Ways To Protect Yourself if Your Parent, Husband or Wife Is An Alcoholic Make sure there are boundaries: Maybe you still want your parent to be involved in your life and the lives of your children but you are not comfortable with putting you and your children in potentially ...
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Dealing with an alcoholic parent as an adult

Dealing with an alcoholic parent as an adultAlcohol can and does have devastating effects on people. And it has even more devastating effects on relationships. When the person who has a problem with alcohol happens to be a parent, this can cause irreversible damage to people. What could have started ...
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My husband hit me for the first time what shall I do?

Are you thinking... My husband hit me for the first time and I don't know what to do? My wife is violent and I don't know whether to stay or leave? I have hit my wife and want to save my marriage I have hit my husband and he has ...
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Is Depression Killing Your Relationship Or Have They Lost Interest? (Part 2)

THE WARNING SIGNS THAT DEPRESSION IS AFFECTING YOUR RELATIONSHIP When a spouse acts withdrawn and unaffectionate, a couple's sex life and level of intimacy will suffer. There is also a sense of shame attached to having a mental health disorder, which can prevent a depressed spouse from seeking help for ...
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Is Depression Killing Your Relationship Or Have They Lost Interest? (Part 1)

Depression can have a devastating effect on close relationships. Sometimes depressed people blame themselves for their pain; sometimes they blame their partners. It’s baffling and painful to see them turn into closed, cold or accusing partners. They may be so different at times that you question do you even know ...
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Confronting and managing control issues in a relationship

It doesn’t feel good to feel controlled in a relationship. It also on a soul level doesn’t feel good to be controlling someone else. Yet unfortunately, it happens all the time and often continues that way until someone has had enough and wants out of the relationship. Over time people ...
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Stop Getting Hurt & Setting Healthy Boundaries

Boundaries are one of the most critical factors in healthy, happy and harmonious relationships. A boundary is a self-honouring agreement inside yourself or with another person that supports your well-being and comes from love. They’re built out of a mix of beliefs, opinions, attitudes, past experiences and social learning. When ...
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Money, Conflict and Control of Finances

When you are married you are tied financially to each other, every decision and transaction affects the other whether you like it or not. That is why finances and control of them is a big area of conflict in family relationships and marriage. You will never agree on everything when ...
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How To Become Closer Through Infertility & Fertility Treatment

Struggling to get pregnant can be a serious blow to the self-esteem of both women and men. Many people have reported feeling flawed, inadequate or guilty. These emotions can bring strain to the individual and couple. Couples undergoing fertility treatment clearly experience a roller-coaster of emotions, the high hopes and ...
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Breaking the Cycle of Isolating and Loneliness

There is a HUGE difference between taking personal processing timeout when you need to think, assess or relax and isolating. Isolating is where you don’t communicate and connect with others for a long period of time. For example; a person may focus on work and then after work instead of ...
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Blowing Hot and Cold In Marriage

Most of the men and women I work with to single-handedly save their marriage from divorce or those who email me asking to know when a marriage is over or what to do when the feelings in a marriage are gone; report to me that their husband or wife is blowing ...
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Is Sexting and Virtual Affairs a Real Threat To Marriage?

When Dawn caught her husband Mark sexting an ex-colleague on WhatsApp, her whole world came crashing down, so we began marriage counselling in Abu Dhabi to discuss this issue. Mark argued that it was an innocent pastime, a bit of fun and that the girl lived in another city (Dubai) ...
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Eating Disorder Signs and Types – Do You Have An Eating Disorder?

Did you know that in the US alone, an estimated 20 million women and 10 million men have or have had an eating disorder at some point in their lives? A lot of people right. You may be wondering what are the eating disorder signs? Whilst I dislike the word ...
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What NOT to do when your husband or wife threatens divorce

What NOT to do when your husband or wife threatens divorce – how to save your marriage and stop divorce today!  General relationship advice does not work when it comes to saving a marriage in crisis.  A couple wanting to increase their intimacy or overcome an area of tension is ...
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Dealing With Alcohol or Drug Problems / Addictions in Relationships – Marriage Counselling Advice

Watching someone, you love harm themselves with alcohol or drugs can be very painful. I am passionate about this topic because I use to suffer from a secret crushing daily drinking habit years ago, where despite wanting to stop, I found I could not. Thankfully I sort help and recovered ...
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5 Narcissistic Traits & How To Deal with Them

I had a lady email me last month saying that a psychologist told her that her husband was a narcissist and she didn’t really know what that meant and she tried to share it with him and he went mad.  I have helped many women and men deal with a ...
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What To Know When You Get Out Of An Abusive Relationship

Until I worked in the field of helping men and women heal their childhood wounds or from abusive relationships I didn’t comprehend the scale of emotional abuse taking place today. Emotional abuse happens across all cultures regardless of religious, economic and social background and it is a growing trend. We ...
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How Compulsive Lying Can Affect Relationships

Having a compulsive liar in your family or being married to one can be exhausting.  In this article I will share with you how to deal with a compulsive liar, how to address a compulsive liar and how to look after yourself when dealing with a compulsive liar. I’ve also ...
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Money Mindsets and Marriage

Resolve your financial disputes and conflicts by understanding what money really means to you and your partner There’s no disputing the fact that money, or in most cases the lack of it, is now the leading cause of stress in a relationship. Often leading to unnecessary arguments and break-ups it’s ...
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Nicola Beer 's Relationship Specialist. Services include marriage coaching an alternative to marriage counselling, divorce counselling , grief counselling, anger management, healing from abuse, stress management  and  anxiety treatment Dubai and Online. 


Nicola combines relationship counselling, nlp coaching, cognitive behavioural therapy CBT, hypnotherapy, somatic therapy, movement and dance therapy to suit the clients needs. 

She wants to make sure there is a right fit between you and her, so offers a free 20 minute online session for you to decide for yourself if she can help you. 

She works as a counsellor and hypnotherapist in Dubai, Abu Dhabi, (UAE) & Saudi Arabia  Riyadh, Jeddah Khobar, Damman)

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